The Womanizer Was So Good I Passed Out the First Time I Tried It
We’ve scoured our favorite online sex toy shops for vibrators, dildos, penis rings, and other toys that are intuitive to use and more importantly vibrators, a lot of fun. Buying a vibrator or other sex toy for the first time can be intimidating, but it doesn’t have to be. In fact, we’d argue that it’s an act of self-care to do some research and consider what types of toys you might like to try.
A little butt stimulation feels incredible because of all the nerve endings packed in your anus, and vibrators can help get that buzz on. Sex toys are excellent for increasing intensity, adding variety to your play, and relaxing your body prior to anal sex. We consulted sex experts and educators to get their thoughts on the best anal vibrators (and how to choose one that’s right for you). Perfect for either solo or partnered play, our Le Wand winner is a great option if you want to enjoy intense orgasms through clitoral stimulation.
The Womanizer Vibe is a whisper-quiet, lay-on clitoral vibrator that introduces UltraWave Vibration technology for deep, dynamic stimulation. Designed to be gentle and avoid overstimulation, it’s perfect for masturbation, foreplay , and partnered play. Perhaps one of the most underrated discreet sex toys is nipple clamps. If you’re a fan of nipple play (or don’t want to risk something that vibrates or is potentially obvious), we suggest trying out nipple clamps. You can wear them while traveling, on a date with your partner and beyond. Though DePree mentioned penetration, she acknowledged that there doesn’t need to be a partner present and that solo stimulation is just as beneficial.
When I removed the Mini from my neck, I could easily hold it between my index and middle finger—I have small hands—and it couldn’t be seen. In fact, the only time the Vesper Mini might become indiscreet is if you play with it in public. That’s why I kept my Mini time behind closed doors, having never been much of an exhibitionist. While both the Vesper and Vesper 2 have four vibration intensities to choose from, the pattern setting on the newer model is now a wave-like sensation as opposed to the original’s pulsing.
All of this power does mean the Magic Wand Rechargeable is larger than most vibrators and weighs 600g and like many wands it is not waterproof. It’s designed to mimic oral sex – think the flutter of a tongue and the suction of a mouth, and achieves that thanks to its clitoral vacuum technology. With over 40 different pleasure combos, from eight levels of intensity and five different vibration patterns this vibrator is sure to blow your mind. From best-selling sex toy brand Dame, the budget-friendly Zee is a do-it-all bullet vibrator. “The design is simple, the aesthetic is minimalist, and there is a simple, single-button control for navigating the three different speeds,” says Finn.